Self Care Reflection: Birthday Parties that Suit Our Own Authentic Desires for Connection

Cam is to my right!

Beloveds! Having old friends become Fat Kid Dance Party Regulars is so much fun!

My friend Cam shared during the self care reflection about what she did for her birthday! She loves to throw big beautiful parties with lots of food and connections, but actually prefers one on one connection.

For her recent birthday (Happy 57th Cam! Love you!!) she did a lot of one on one dates with friends and really celebrated in a way that nourished her! A true Taurus, enjoying snacks and people and connections that nourish and rest!

It is totally self care to pause and consider how you would feel best celebrated! You could send a google form to friends to share a special memory if being social is not what is feeling good for you. You can also be completely extra and have a Julie the Cruise Director list of potential activities spanning a month’s time. There’s no wrong way to have a birthday if you’re not hurting anyone, in my opinion. I would encourage you to receive love and experience celebration for being alive another year.

Catch you at Zoom class on Saturdays!

How do you like to celebrate your birthday? Tell us in the class Discord, available through Patreon membership!

I felt so much peace after this conversation with Alex! The audio version with my intro is on my podcast! Search “Bevin” on Apple or Google Podasts / Spotify! Episode 90!

The recent 22 Minute class from the Fat Kid Dance Party LIVE! level of Patreon membership!

It's a good sweat and reviving! 

22 Minute Fat Kid Dance Party Aerobics 

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